The purpose and use of this site is to bring together victims of all domestic violence situations including emotional and financial abuse and intimate partner rape also known as intimate partner violence (IPV). This site is intended to be used as resource for tools to help victims transition to a survivor so they can move on to thrive towards a better life and heal from the trauma caused by their abusers. Rachel DePalma the author of the book Liars, Cheaters and Gaslighters as well as the admins of this site and the social media outlets are not licensed therapists or licensed domestic violence advocates. We are survivors who learned how to thrive and felt compelled to share the path we followed and the resources we found helpful which include self-help books, YouTube inspirational leaders / teachers as well as share our playbook for self-care to get you started on the journey to loving YOU again. This site is not set up or designed for reporting abuse or rape. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 911. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please call the national domestic violence hotline at 1-800-799-7233.